The reason most your couples put off writing their will is because of their reluctance to choose a guardian. This one decision seems to freeze the entire process. The problem, of course, if that by failing to choose, the parents are basically giving up their right to choose and giving it to the court. This means that if you do not have a will naming a guardian, a judge will decide for you. This could result in people raising your children that you would not have chosen yourself. For an article guiding you through the process of choosing, enter your information on the bottom of the home page to receive a free article.